low ball.

"if you expect nothing, you will never be disappointed."

but if you expect nothing, are you underestimating what you are worth? or what someone else is capable of? or what are all of the conditions where this can backfire?

where's the line between expecting nothing and settling? or is that a completely separate spectrum?

who is the decision maker on when you are expecting "too" much?

i feel like i need to comprehend that sometimes it's ok to feel disappointed.